Saturday, January 30, 2010

男人苦

在性别界线逐渐模糊的现代,
性别责任也不那么绝对的现代社会,
东方价值依然制造
女人娇弱,男人刚强。
让女人,男人都好苦!

男人苦?
自小,
男人被教育,
男儿有泪不轻弹,
男儿流血不流泪。


男人为女人赴汤蹈火,
准时载她上下班,
像苦力般做着粗活,
她说:“你真是个好人“ , 让他高兴半天。
但对不起男人,你出局了,
女人要的是情人,不是佣人。

男人婚前拼命赚钱,
以为没有5C 娶不到老婆,
后来男人赚到钱,
有了妻儿,
却有了挥之不去的肚腩和秃头。

男人遇到一个赚钱比自己多的女人,
因骨子里的男人主义作祟,
肩膀上的负担是减轻了,
但心里的压力和负担却增加了。。。


男人快乐与否,
大部分取决于女人,
女人一句,
“没用的男人“
“你不是男子汉“
而耿耿于怀。
举起的拳头被逼收回,
说到嘴边的脏话被硬生生地逼吞回去,
因好男不与女斗,
因打女人的肯定是坏男人。

君子风度
男人因为这句话,
宁可雨水把自己淋成落汤鸡,
也要确保女人不被雨淋到;

危难当前,
男人挺身而出,
宁可自己冒险,
也不肯心爱的女人受苦。
别人一句话,
这是男人应该做的,
功劳苦劳全被冲进东海。

男人面对讨厌的女同事时,
不能像对憎恨的男同事般以武力解决,
每每被欺负,
为了表现君子风度,
只能含泪而笑,
泪水须在脱眶而出之前被蒸发掉。

当今,女人 争取到一切公平的工作和升迁机会,
靠女人的男人被说是吃软饭,
女人不工作,靠男人养,从不被人说吃软饭。
男人没有事业,
家庭,老婆的压力不如自己压力大,
许多中年失业跳楼,
显现出事业对男人而言,
是信心也是尊严。
男人也是人,
害怕的男人是懦夫,
不举的中年男人,
被嘲笑无能。

老公跟别的女人胡搞,
别人说逢场作戏,
老婆跟别的男人胡搞,
别人说这个男人戴绿帽。


男人脸上的微笑,
有多少是发自内心的?
男人男人,
你们所承受的社会压力,
你们所吃的委屈,
高高的社会期望压在肩膀上,
有人说,
男人宽阔的肩膀来承受压力的。
35岁后的男人,
家庭负担越来越沉重,
逐渐把疲惫的狗,
变成肩负重任,话不多的牛。


传统教育只教人往前,往前,往前,
没教人如何解压做自己。
为什么要在乎别人的眼光?
为何要活在别人的期望里?
为何要因为君子风度而伪装自己?
为何因为社会标准而不许自己害怕和流泪?
为何我们已经在男女平等的年代仍被传统观念束缚着?

人生苦短,
这又何苦?

我们本能的关怀女人,
现在也来关心苦命的男人吧!
就当社会要求男女平等,
女人们,
平等的对待男人,
给于男人同等的关爱。
给于男人同等的安全感,
给于男人同样的呵护,

不然
痛苦的男人

会转向男同志,
因为大家都是男人,
容易明白男人的苦,
借以满足自己对爱的渴望。

或者男人会返老还童,
变得叛逆起来,
变成淘气的老顽童。

下次如果你(女)期待我帮手而被我拒绝了,
对不起, 不是真的不想帮,
只是叛逆的心,
不甘受制于传统的枷锁,
要挑战传统对君子风度的期待,
希望你当这是治疗我未来的忧郁症,
别跟我计较。。感恩!

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