Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Toothache and 2013

Just when I was about to say goodbye to the sick-prone year 2013, an overwhelming toothache strike me at the last minute.

On 29th Dec 2013, i had a swell at the inner gum of my upper front tooth. I thought it was due to heatiness, hence without much care, I merely took some herbal tea to expel the heat.

On the next few days, the swelling turned into a painful bit. It gradually spread into the front tooth, resulted in a overwhelming toothache and an intermittent mild fever.

Toothache is touted as the second most painful event to be experienced, (after labour pain) due to its constant pain. The toothache climaxed on 5th January 2014, until the extend my tears were flowing uncontrollably and rummaging through the fridge for painkiller. Also I kept waking up at night in pain :(
Haih, how low is my pain tolerance compared with the mother who had to endure the labour pain.

My consultation with a dentist nearby is another ridiculous event not to be forgotten. The young, fresh-from-college looking dentist looked at my tooth X-ray image and mumbled to herself :"There seems to be no inflammation at the root canal and the tooth is healthy, but why is he moaning in pain" and turned to me to advice me to perform a root canal treatment for the tooth to effectively "remove" the pain i am suffering. Her rationale is since the pain is from the root which the tooth is attached, then it must be infected and root canal is a sooner or later thing.

Should i had no knowledge on root canal treatment, I will just heed the advice from the so-called medical practitioner and proceed immediately.

Root canal treatment actually means removing the nerves inside the tooth, rendering the tooth to gradually die off. Although it is very common nowadays due to its effectiveness in removing pain and saving the tooth from further infection but the result is an irreversible one, hence it should be the solution of the last resort.

For my case, I know sooner or later i might have to bid farewell to my tooth to undergo root canal treatment, but i insisted on exhausting every option available, hence i suggest antibiotics to the dentist. She unwillingly prescribe me the antibiotics, while keep encouraging me to do the root canal treatment, which cost RM1k.

Thus far, the antibiotics is working as the pain subsides significantly. I can also feel the effect from my bowel movement and mouth breath. I seldom take antibiotics, knowing the consequences of antibiotic abuse, probably that explains the speedy recovery on the second day in the antibiotics therapy of five days, but it is not over yet.

Year 2013 is a year full of calamities for my teeth. I did a root canal treatment after suffering from intense pain during my trip in Taipei, then later in October the intense toothache on my upper left wisdom tooth, resulted in extraction due to cavities. Just before stepping into 2014, this is the third one.

I do not lament on the bad luck or unfortunate year according to my horoscope. Instead I am an advocate of using scientific approach in doing cause and result analysis. One message is clear:

YOUR ORAL HYGIENE IS IN QUESTION!

Few practices to improve my oral hygiene:

1. Pay more attention in brushing teeth - i always rushed through.
2. Use mouth rinse once a day to remove bacteria. The teeth maybe spotless but the bacteria in the mouth will infest the gum causing bleeding gum. (I had bleeding gum for long time, not knowing how to dealt with it).
3. Brush teeth/ or gargle with mouth rinse/plain water after meal.
4. Take chewing gum enriched with xylitol.
5. Electric toothbrush.
6. Change toothbrush every 4 months.
7. Alternating between various toothpaste to avoid bacteria immune to one toothpaste.
8. Drink green tea and eat onion which the latter is good in killing bacteria in the mouth.

To do the above is hassle, but always remember the intense pain you suffered, you will not hesitate to maintain a good practice.

Monday, December 30, 2013

MY house

One of my 2013 resolution is to buy/ design/ renovate and move into MY house. Of these steps, the first one - buy a house is the toughest. You need to do lots of window-shopping, survey, projection on development 5 years down the road, abit of luck, patience and be bold when opportunity arises. I will include all expenses incurred in the blog today for future reference.

MY house is located opposite Bkt Jalil Recreational Park. Pro and Cons listed below:

Cons:
- Only one car park, not covered. - scarce car park.
- Facing west - sun in the afternoon
- New school opposite.
- 10 years old -
- Exterior look quite old tradition.
- Water patch in the small room.

Pros:
- Future LRT station 600m away.
- Close to major highways (Bkt Jalil Expressway/ Kesas/ MEX/ BERRAYA/ KL Seremban)
- Recreational park within walking distance. (Cooling and refreshing environment)
- Surrounded by high end condo - Treez, KM1
- Opposite is the upcoming mall dubbed Pavillion 2 by Malton-Ho Hup JV.

I fall in love with the unit at the first sight, mainly due to the good condition and newly painted wall, despite sun shining directly in the afternoon. Offer price is RM340K, Knowing how hot the properties were in the area, we merely negotiated to RM330K. After checking with few bank loans, (UOB/OCBC and Public Bank), only PBB offered 40 years and BLR-2.4% and was quickly accepted. Upon signing S&P, the remaining portion of the purchase price (90%) must be paid within 90days, else the seller has the right to charge interest. For my case, S&P signed on 8th April 2013, but the full loan only disbursed in August, luckily the seller is kind enough not to charge me interest.

In this project, i keep track with every cents possible i spent, total spend to date is RM93,644. The breakdown of spending is as pie chart below. The deposit (10% of SPA price) accounted to 35% of total spending, while furniture at 25% (RM93,644 x 25% = RM23,411)  is in the runner up.


Do bear with me for the load of figures and statistic i am going to share, but it will be indeed useful for future reference in buying/renovating your house in future.

1. Furniture :
Main items to watch :
1. The purchase of Electrolux Washing Machine and Dryer from warehouse sales at 40% below market price. Original price of Washing Machine EWF10741 and Dryer EDV605 is at RM2,900. But we manage to get both for only RM1,820. The only downside is only 6 months warranty of the two items. To enjoy such discount, one have to be fully prepared (with model number interested at your finger tips) and go early on the ELECTROLUX warehouse sales day (refrigerator all taken up within the first 45 mins). This is our lifetime experience of making two electrical appliances purchase within such short time frame!

Check out their FB page @ Electrolux Home appliances Malaysia for the dates.


Itemized furniture purchases.


2. Aircon - RM3,200/ Renovation: RM22,670

I decided to install aircon in every room and include living room there are 4 units. With the 2 units inherited from the seller, i installed another 2 new units at living room and master room. (Not sure whether this is the right choice to have so many air con)

Teck is my main contractor, I won't say his skill is superb, but still acceptable with few defects/flaws below:

a. Some tiles in the toilet and kitchen were empty inside when knocked, when asked he rest assured me that they won't fall.
b. Light switch behind sofa is isolated, even though i already told upfront to aggregate it together with all lights.
c. The switch for outside light should be outside.
d. He insisted i had small switch instead of big switch.
e. Kitchen plugs were too high, resulted in the wall unit had to be shifted higher.
f. Master room sink is still unstable even though reminded him multiple times.

I admitted that i was partially responsible for some mistakes above, but due to my indecisiveness, notwithstanding the lack of experience in house deco, hence he had the upper hand of leading me. Next time, i will do better. In short, he is cheap but not the best!


Itemized air-con expenses.

Itemized contractor expenses.

Despite the abovementioned, now MY house is ready. I officially moved in on 1st December 2013, after 9 months of the long awaited purchase (I paid 3% to the agent on 9th March 2013,).

Whenever i reflected of the accomplishment, the largest credit  goes to my dear wife-to-be. It won't be possible without her relentless support, despite arguments at times, and patches up quickly. It might not be the largest/ most luxurious unit town, but it is definitely a warm and comfortable nest for us to dock and relax.




Tuesday, September 10, 2013

一个人也可以幸福

"No Man Is An Island" 这句著名的英文成语说明了人类对孤独寂寞的恐惧。

人人都想有朋友,家人,伴侣,同事的陪伴,但事与愿违,往往我们会有单独一人的时候。

有人自艾自怜,有人怨天怪地。

今天原本约了房友吃饭,可是她没回来吃,打电话又没接,饭煮好了,怎么办?

我是个绝情种子,既然电话联络不上,当然没有痴痴等屋友回来,自己一个人先吃了。

原因-
如果屋友关心我,会希望我懂得自己照顾自己,先吃饭。
如果对方不关心我,那我更加应该先吃饭,不为她挨饿。

可是电视剧情往往会让那煮好饭的女主角痴痴的在家里等,为了等男主角回来一起吃饭的幸福感觉,等到睡着,食物冷了,肚子也是空的。显出爱情凌驾于万物之上。

男主角回来看了必定内疚万分,便会怪罪让他迟回来的原因,甚至憎恨自己。

结果是双方都输了:
女- 肚子饿,或者愿与之共患难而憔悴模样,或者生气和责怪对方不守时。
男- 肚子饿,内疚,愧疚。或者不满自己的工作,或者下次匆匆忙忙赶回家。

最终男主角因飙车回家意外身亡,女主角不想独活而自尽,显现爱情的伟大!
不是意外,应该导演才是凶手吧!

换个想法,如果女主角不痴痴的等而选择单独吃饭,吃饱了,把食物盖好待会男主角回来时再弄热陪他吃。男主角回来了,有可能会内疚吗?会责怪女主角吗?不!他只会对她的谅解感到欣慰。

结果是双方赢了:
女 - 肚子饱,安心。用烹饪绑住男人的胃,用贤淑绑住了男人的心,做个幸福的女人。
男 - 肚子饿,窝心。有回到避风港的感觉,无后顾之忧,充满电可继续冲刺。

谁说一个人不能幸福呢?