Sunday, September 28, 2008

Socializing


In the world of sales and marketing, we will face alot of new client/prospect everyday.
Marketing people are often full of attraction because of proactive attitude and their enthusiasiasm.


How long we have to chat to warm-up the whole conversation?
How can we "close case" (create successful deals?)
Can we impressed them for the next appointment?


There is a few opinions that i would like to share after the Port Dickson trip:

First of all, Striking a simple conversation by simply smile, saying "hi", greets etc.
WORSE result : the prospect just simply act like he/she didn't noticed you. (often those who are low in self esteem also do this)
PD trip : Mr K invited us for a volleyball game yesterday, what were our response?
I met their group near swimming pool at night.A big smile and greeting "hi" bring us
to exchange our hp number for the volleyball match the next morning.

2nd , warming up the conversation using the concept of F.O.I ( family occupation interest). Often this is when you get a clear picture of his mindset and background for
WORSE scenario : classic One-Way-Traffic with the answer of YES/NO. Conversation stops here.
PD trip : After we finished the game, I asked K about his Occupation (as it's the only thing i am interested in)

3rd, Find out the common interest. This is the climax of the conversation, we have to tagged to the topic that our prospect is interested/ highly motivated to tells you. Make it a memorable one by sharing the common interest.
WORSE scenario : the conversation is flat however it's a first step in knowing your prospect.
PD trip : Our common interest is playing volleyball game. Make it a memorable one and we really have a the other match next morning!



It sounds simple, as simple as A B C, but some people just refused to make it.
PD trip , when Mr K came over to invite us into a volleyball match, i noticed many couldn't engage in the conversation probably because:
i) typical shy-shy type
ii) NOT proficient in English / Cantonese (language problem)
iii) NOT skillful in volleyball

A single hand cannot claps! thats why we must either take it or leave it and not procrastinate (dunno what2 do)

NO PROBLEM!

This is my first experience in volleyball game. I don't even know the basic hand position/style to hit the ball!
I just try my best to play, learn , laugh, shout, give-me-5 etc..


ENTHUSIASM!

Our brothers have all the skills but they are just a-bit passive in SOCIALIZING...
If they choose to unleash their ultimate potential, the result is BEYOND imagination!

IF

You have a beautiful smile, USE IT !

You have talented in sports, USE IT !

You are highly proficient in English , USE IT !






Finally i really really enjoyed playing beach volleyball! YES Sang Kancil !

Thursday, August 7, 2008

事业篇

犹记大学时间从事传销时,朋友们都不认同,不受看好。神明保佑下,最终可以达到目的,如愿全职了!
当时的死党们,我们感情甚好,只可惜他们不能认同传销,他们宁可相信金字塔公司。
或许也是一种风气效应吧。
虽然自己全职,但有些寂寞和无奈。

现在,从事传销事业,因生活压力的侵蚀下,上线逐渐消极,或消失。
当时的好领袖,我们感情甚好,只可惜他们不能认同传销了。他们宁可打工做生意,
或许是一种风气效应吧。
虽然自己坚持从事,但有些寂寞和无奈。


人来人往梦初醒,

梦想目标渐浮现;


八千里路银和月,

熊熊烈火在心中。

欺骗?幼稚?感言篇

认识好多人,一些人可让你从偶像般敬佩,到大哥般尊敬,后来却敌人般痛恨,最后变成老朋友般的交情。短短几年,自己的感受居然可有如此大的转变,自我反省自己是否太单纯和幼稚了?

不!这是一种成长,对人的第一感觉变得更敏锐了。

我一直在看错人。

有位甲,人为虽严格,却很关心我。他把许多人的秘密告诉我,同时我也因此对他绝对信任。他叫我提防乙,说这人花心,爱一脚踏两船,人品太过现实。
由于先入为主,我也有了同感,开始了提防心。
对于乙,我大部分的概念都是甲塑造出的。

后来我时常接触乙,发现不然。偶然发现他从未去PUB,更无感情经验,从他的周围也可求证这点。
其实乙对甲人格和作风非常不赞成,同时对此人也非常不满。
更巧的是,认识甲的朋友也叫我一定要提防这个人,而且又不敢讲多。

又看错人,看错谁?甲还是乙?自己有了答案还问?