Saturday, September 27, 2014

鬼故事

一如往常跟同事闲聊,老板说起自己如何害怕看鬼戏,越害怕却也越看得过瘾,且须越看越恐怖的鬼故事。

大伙都基本上相信世间上有灵异物体的存在,都抱着人不犯我,我不犯人的心境。
接着问大伙,你们怕死后的世界吗?

各种答案都有,我嘴上说不知道没想过,心里另有想法。

活着的日子有够多事情去烦,去想了;闲人才有功夫去想死后的世界。

其实不然,人生不同的阶段,心境会随之转变,想的东西也会不同。
现在或许忙忙碌碌,大便都没时间,所以没去想,但不能担保以后也不会思考死这件事。
现在想的死,就如睡觉了一般,至于灵魂会不会去到地狱天堂受刑投胎,真没去想。

忙到大便都没时间,给了我当头棒喝。

我早期常说,有如此感觉,可能你已经迷失方向,焦点模糊,无法辨清事情轻重。

友情,亲情,和自己,照顾好了吗?

友情,
减少和失去联络的朋友越来越多, fb能促进友情但不能取代联络。

亲情,
亲人知道我忙,想给我打电话还要先短信问许可。

自己,
爱自己多少?枕边人认为我总是睡眠不足。
运动旅游爬山潜水做了多少?看着慢慢隆起的肚腩便知
多久没跟自己心里对话?看看我这blog的活动便知。

要主动出击还是继续被动等待命运安排? 
不知明天还是无常先到,今晚盖上眼睛明天还会睁开吗?
忙碌生活和感官的刺激,杂念,像落叶般层层覆盖了心里深处的那片绿叶。
脾气变得急躁,不断膨胀的功利主义,说话开始语无伦次,想法开始紊乱。
找回那片绿叶这么难吗,还是习性,懒惰,致日复一日,混混沌沌地过日子?
混混沌沌或许是福气,傻人有傻福嘛。




Tuesday, March 11, 2014

转载:强者不是没有眼泪,而是含着眼泪依然奔跑

有个穷人,很穷,一个富人见他可怜,就起了善心,想帮他致富。

富人送给他一头牛,嘱他好好开荒,等春天来了撒上种子,秋天就可以远离那 个“穷”字了。

穷人满怀希望开始奋斗。可是没过几天, 牛要吃草,人要吃饭,日子比过去还难。

穷人就想,不如把牛卖了,买几只羊,先杀一只吃,剩下的还可以生小羊,长大了 拿去卖,可以赚更多的钱。穷人的计划如愿以偿,只是吃了一只羊之 后,小羊迟迟没有生下来,日子又艰难了,忍不住又吃了一只。

穷人想:这样下去不得了,不如把羊卖了,买成鸡,鸡生蛋的速度要快一些,鸡蛋立刻可以赚钱,日子立刻可以好转。

穷人的计划又如愿以偿了,但是日子并没 有改变,又艰难了,又忍不住杀鸡,终于 杀到只剩一只鸡时,穷人的理想彻底崩溃。他想:致富是无望了,还不如把鸡卖了, 打一壶酒,三杯下肚,万事不愁。

很快春天来了,发善心的富人兴致勃勃送种子来,竟然发现穷人正就着咸菜喝酒, 牛早就没有了,房子里依然一贫如洗。富人转身走了。穷人仍然一直穷著。

很多穷人都有过梦想,甚至有过机遇,有过行动,但要坚持到底却很难。 据一个投资家说,他的成功秘诀就是:没钱时,不管再困难,也不要动用投资和积蓄,压力会使你找到赚钱的新方法,帮你还清账单。这是个好习惯。

性格形成习惯,习惯决定成功。

越是有故事的人:越沉静简单;

越肤浅单薄的人:越浮躁不安。

"强者:"不是没有眼泪,而是含着眼泪依然奔跑。

人最先衰老的:不是容貌,而是那份不顾一切的闯劲。

有时候:要敢于背上,超出自己预料的包袱,经历一段努力后,发现自己比想象的优秀很多。

成功的人:一般不是才华横溢的人,而是,最能以亲切和蔼的态度给人以好感的人。


一个人,不能改变自己的形象:却能改变自己的气质;
一个人,不能达到理想的高度:却能提高自己的水平。

人际交往中:善良、热情、诚信更容易给人以好感。

微笑,比礼貌更亲切:会给人阳光般的温暖。

不是眼泪就能挽回失去;
不是所有人都值得付出;
不是伤心就一定要哭泣;
不是表情都要写在脸上;
不是任何人都能理解你;
所以:面对生活中偶尔的不如意,要学会坚强的微笑。

有一句话:一切都有最好的安排一一只要你坚持!!!

source : http://cforum1.cari.com.my/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=3338118


Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Toothache and 2013

Just when I was about to say goodbye to the sick-prone year 2013, an overwhelming toothache strike me at the last minute.

On 29th Dec 2013, i had a swell at the inner gum of my upper front tooth. I thought it was due to heatiness, hence without much care, I merely took some herbal tea to expel the heat.

On the next few days, the swelling turned into a painful bit. It gradually spread into the front tooth, resulted in a overwhelming toothache and an intermittent mild fever.

Toothache is touted as the second most painful event to be experienced, (after labour pain) due to its constant pain. The toothache climaxed on 5th January 2014, until the extend my tears were flowing uncontrollably and rummaging through the fridge for painkiller. Also I kept waking up at night in pain :(
Haih, how low is my pain tolerance compared with the mother who had to endure the labour pain.

My consultation with a dentist nearby is another ridiculous event not to be forgotten. The young, fresh-from-college looking dentist looked at my tooth X-ray image and mumbled to herself :"There seems to be no inflammation at the root canal and the tooth is healthy, but why is he moaning in pain" and turned to me to advice me to perform a root canal treatment for the tooth to effectively "remove" the pain i am suffering. Her rationale is since the pain is from the root which the tooth is attached, then it must be infected and root canal is a sooner or later thing.

Should i had no knowledge on root canal treatment, I will just heed the advice from the so-called medical practitioner and proceed immediately.

Root canal treatment actually means removing the nerves inside the tooth, rendering the tooth to gradually die off. Although it is very common nowadays due to its effectiveness in removing pain and saving the tooth from further infection but the result is an irreversible one, hence it should be the solution of the last resort.

For my case, I know sooner or later i might have to bid farewell to my tooth to undergo root canal treatment, but i insisted on exhausting every option available, hence i suggest antibiotics to the dentist. She unwillingly prescribe me the antibiotics, while keep encouraging me to do the root canal treatment, which cost RM1k.

Thus far, the antibiotics is working as the pain subsides significantly. I can also feel the effect from my bowel movement and mouth breath. I seldom take antibiotics, knowing the consequences of antibiotic abuse, probably that explains the speedy recovery on the second day in the antibiotics therapy of five days, but it is not over yet.

Year 2013 is a year full of calamities for my teeth. I did a root canal treatment after suffering from intense pain during my trip in Taipei, then later in October the intense toothache on my upper left wisdom tooth, resulted in extraction due to cavities. Just before stepping into 2014, this is the third one.

I do not lament on the bad luck or unfortunate year according to my horoscope. Instead I am an advocate of using scientific approach in doing cause and result analysis. One message is clear:

YOUR ORAL HYGIENE IS IN QUESTION!

Few practices to improve my oral hygiene:

1. Pay more attention in brushing teeth - i always rushed through.
2. Use mouth rinse once a day to remove bacteria. The teeth maybe spotless but the bacteria in the mouth will infest the gum causing bleeding gum. (I had bleeding gum for long time, not knowing how to dealt with it).
3. Brush teeth/ or gargle with mouth rinse/plain water after meal.
4. Take chewing gum enriched with xylitol.
5. Electric toothbrush.
6. Change toothbrush every 4 months.
7. Alternating between various toothpaste to avoid bacteria immune to one toothpaste.
8. Drink green tea and eat onion which the latter is good in killing bacteria in the mouth.

To do the above is hassle, but always remember the intense pain you suffered, you will not hesitate to maintain a good practice.