Study for exam or study for knowledge? What an old grandma question...

Study for exam or study for knowledge?
Thats a typical classic arguement for motivated undergraduates.

Study for exam or study for knowledge?
I always choose the latter.
Some said i am too overconfidence with that decision, arrogant?I am who i am.?
But, "I" am just someone i hope i am.
The external factor tend to distract us from our direction
You are study for the coming exam, will you still study for knowledge after exam?

You are left with two choices,
Divert from your direction(study for exam) which is a easier method,
Strive againts many odds to continue in your direction(study for knowledge).
I will choose the latter again
But again how far can that idea persist?

The same scenario keeps repeating again and again in our life right?
We know the best decision but we are always not making the best decision
Maybe we don't dare,
or we don't persevere(insist),
or we just follow,
or we think someone's decision is better
or we just don't want to change

Cost and benefit.
We measure the cost and benefit of not willing to change
We measure the cost and benefit of making changes
We already have the answer even before measuring.

Here comes the answer,
It is what i hope i become,
it is what makes me proud,
it is the feeling of superiority
It is the guidance for my life,
It is my way to account for myself

You think, You come, You TAKE ACTION!

Tips for a MeAniNgFuL DAY...

I had a great day today!
For past few weeks, i hardly have time for myself.
Thats when i need some REAL personal time.

Can you imagine the feeling of waking up naturally without alarm clock, delicious breakfast, completing a challenging handicraft task which is different from routine job, arrange your things/cleaning your room while listening to soft music, you feel that you OWN your own time, you are loving yourself and spending time with him, your mind flashing the past events in the week, a simple day but it's so great to make one feel RECHARGED.

(Try to avoid online the whoe day as it may cause a bad posture over a long time and its a past-time event and u may not feel you had done anything...)


I am building a table and i have the feeling of building LEGO.
I got my first LEGO from Ms Er Lay Si,
my standard 2 form teacher.
She gives me as a present when i am 8 years old.
Thats when i started playing LEGO and love it.
Today i received a table in boards and nails.
I felt the excitment of assembling the table,
just like when i am playing LEGO.

The instruction is very clear, just follow it and everything is done. However there is place where you need some skills to make sure the table is stable.
I am focused but not stressed, simply excited, hoping that you can build it longer, just like the anticipation of playing LEGO.

Before Assemble

Assembling
After assembling

Everyday, we are responsible to job task, assignments,
friends' needs, spouse needs, expectations, etc...
Today people try to release stress days by
going Karaoke, clubbing, shopping spree,
in the end, do you feel recharged or more TIRED?

A simple afternoon for yourself can turned out become a meaningful day.
Its simple without costing you a single cent.
Just make sure you spend sometime with him(yourself),
treat him good, love him,
let him feel respected and appreciated.
You will find the next morning waking up feeling energetic!
You will said "life is GREAT!"

厉害！？？

有位好朋友说， “汉杰，你真厉害。”
听了赞美的话心理应该是开心的。不管它是否真心。
我老套的回答：“过奖了，还好罢了。。”

下个月要去朋友毕业典礼，自己毕业就三年了。
我离“厉害“ 好远，不敢当。
我依然那副德性。我行我素。

觉得很想把泰国的美与人分享，就全家一起去；
觉得神山山景如画，就去登山；
觉得想体验恋情，就去爱爱；
觉得想鸡婆朋友的婚礼筹备， 就去当兄弟，主持人；
觉得自己想学些经济管理理论，就去进修。
觉得感恩，知足。

父母觉得我自己应管理好自己人生。
朋友觉得我什么都敢去做。
我自己觉得，是时候定性了。

最近参与一班年轻一辈的朋友，
自己毕竟老了，思想有了隔膜。
但对于学习新知识， 我十分有冲劲。
生活有规律了,虽然吸收力不如以前，
但好奇心和兴趣的驱使下，我感受前所未有，享受知识的沐浴。
周围的朋友，唉声叹气，叫苦连天。
或许他们未经历更大的无奈，毕竟年纪轻轻。
我很尊敬他们，因他们有魄力，有理想。
不想用我的思维影响他们，只在适当时候分享同感。
静静的注意他们，我也会拿当年的自己来做比较。

学习不仅在于课本。
看到附近果汁挡，用苦瓜配芒果，
以芒果浓郁的香味和甜味，盖过苦瓜的苦涩，
回来也有样学样，
做成了，有层次感， 很享受学习的喜悦。

我很期待明天，每一天。
人生本应如此，未来充满未知，至少目前我是如此。